This month's featured movie is Heaven and Earth shows
the life of a young lady's struggle. She lives in
Vietnam during the time of the war. It seems like she
can't find peace. She has one tragedy after another.
She looses her home. Her brother and people she loves
are killed. Her sister becomes a prostitute. She
herself has a child and is struggling. One thing after
another happens, and watching one begins to feel like,
“My God! When is she going to get a break? What is the
purpose of this movie?”
Then she meets a soldier from the U.S. and falls in
love. Soon she moves to the United States and begins to
settle into a whole new way of life. She is married and
has a husband and kids. Just as it seems as though
things are finally going to be alright, then everything
begins to fall apart. The husband is having all sorts
of problems, and they are not getting along at all. She
finally realizes that she can't make it with him. It's
just too much. She takes a trip back to Vietnam, and
while there she runs into her guru. She tells him about
her problems with her husband and how she is going to
have to leave him. The teacher tells her, "You and your
husband have mixed karma. If you leave him you will
never be happy with a man?" She goes back to try to
address the situation.
Craig's Insights:
1. The guru tells her that they have mixed karma. In
other words they have lessons in common. Those lessons
are what brought them together. His lesson brought her
to him, and her lesson brought him to her. If she did
not address the lesson and get it, she would be destined
to repeat it. She would simply find herself in similar
situations. This is true with all of us; the lesson
is what's most important.
2. In the movie it looks like all these things are
happening by chance or bad luck. It appears this way
until the teacher shows up and explains. Many times in
life, our situation looks like it is all happening by
chance, but it is actually on account of a lesson that
we need to get. We need to remember that everything is
happening in order for us to get whatever lesson is
attached to the situation. Then, we must stop and ask,
“What is it about me and my approach to life that
attracted this situation in my life?”
3. Amazingly, when we truly see the lesson, when we
see how the way we are, and we look at the world,
attracted the situation at hand. Suddenly in that
moment, the world seems mysteriously magical. It seems
tailor-made just for us - and it is.
4. In that moment we are actually acknowledging God.
We are seeing the order behind all the things in our
world. It is quite beautiful. If we want to keep this
vision and the beauty of it, we have to meditate and
reflect often. Otherwise, we will lose it and we will
live in a world where things just happen by chance once
again
5. The truth is that the lesson is always trying to
take us to a better place if we can learn to live in
light of the lesson at hand.
6. Another truth is that there is always a lesson at
hand, whether we can see it or not. In the movie, the
lesson was there even when the couple first got together
and were happy. It was being set up and prepared to hit
her hard enough to get the lesson. Knowing this we
should always be on the lookout for our lesson before
the situation gets out of hand. Remember, the lesson is
always trying to take us to a more beautiful place that
goes along with the new higher way of living.
7. The guru had to explain to our hero that she had to
stay and overcome her karma. Many times, it takes God
coming through someone else to tell us what we need to
hear.
8. The answer is not to always stay in the situation.
Sometimes the lesson calls for us to leave. The trick
is to focus on the lesson and who we are to become
through the situation we have experienced. If we
meditate often we will be able to see it much clearer
and much sooner.
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